- In what ways has our church community felt lost or struggled to see the spirit?
- some parishioners have been overwhelmed and frightened of Covid, and have struggled to find new way to live life to the fullest during these restricted times
- some Bible Study groups have had difficulty staying connected; older members could not navigate Zoom meetings (or did not have computers)
- when our Phone Tree called some parishioners, they asked not to be called again (we respected their request, but do not know the reason)
- we have not had the ability to minister one-to-one, i.e. when the spirit flows from one person to the other
- the loss of music and singing
- the loss of Holy Communion
- trying to meet the needs of members who were shut-in or in seniors homes
- What has surprised you?
- the joy of simple human connections: phone calls, unrushed visits at 6′ distance, kindness and thoughtfulness of others, the power of a caring and connected community
- some people felt closer to God; they were continually assured that they are not alone
- how our church community came together and was so connected, and found ways to make people feel connected to the parish
- our parish has stepped up, with hard work and much thought, to use the technology available in order to make Sunday worship possible
- as someone without a computer, I was appreciative that the church office took the time to send me the weekly pew bulletin to I could worship along with the parish
- the blessing of being part of a small group that supported each other
- What have we let go of and do not need to reclaim?
- busyness; not having enough time
- long evenings at in-person meetings (vs the joy of the Zoom cut-off time)
- going out and being with other people when we were sick; we do not need to reclaim epidemics of colds and flu
- weekly envelope giving (switched to monthly giving or EFT)
- What surprises do we need to grieve?
- deaths of friends; unable to attend funerals and hear about their lives
- fearfulness of friends during Covid; will they get over it after Covid or remain fearful?
- separation from friends and family (eg in hospital, seniors homes)
- we don’t know all our losses yet; they will be revealed as we start to gather again
- the recognition of how much annual events are important to us
- negatives effects on mental health; loneliness; unemployment; difficulty in ministering to those needs
- how the parish children have grown up during the last year, and the loss of being part of their development
- losing the ability to go and visit people in hospital; not being able to have our outreach services in the care homes
- What surprises do we need to celebrate?
- friendship; community
- continuing to welcome newcomers during Covid
- strong communities and friendships will survive
- the ability of our parish to pivot and successfully provide on-line worship services; the strength of our new on-line presence;
- parishioners who stepped up to use their gifts or learn new things in order to make on-line worship happen
- how technology has enabled/maintained our opportunities or fellowship (Zoom coffee time after on-line worship; Zoom Bible studies and social events); instead of visiting one-on-one at in-person coffee time, there is a much broader conversation at the Zoom get-togethers
- Zoom worship has made the world a bit smaller; family members in other communities and even other countries joined in our Zoom worship
- resiliency of our parish and the broader community
- great leadership, and people that stepped up to fill needs
- ability of shut-in parishioners to attend worship again, via Zoom
- ability to attend large church events (eg induction of the Bishop) that we would normally not be invited to
- people have been kinder (taking the time to celebrate life events like birthdays; strangers stopping to talk when we are out walking)
- children & youth have taken part in the on-line services by reading the lessons
- What new sparks are flying in your imagination for the life of our congregation?
- our parish has so much to offer; how can we bring more people into our church community to share the experience?
- how can we encourage fearful people to get through their fear, and grow?
- so many women are seeking connection with other women and have been finding creative ways to connect during Covid; how can we keep those ‘sparks’ going?
- grow some existing ministries
- excited about looking forward to our church opening up
- develop existing or new ministries that join the generations (eg choirs)
- continuing to offer on-line worship for shut-ins and to expand our church family
- What has our community learned from the experience of this past year?
- we are strong, committed, loving, caring and faithful
- we have experienced how much we need each other
- small gestures make a huge difference
- we have learned how resilient and faithful we are, and how to be on-line
- we have become more aware of the needs of the broader community and have found new ways to help people
- how lonely it can be when we are deprived of human contact in worship
- meeting in person has greater value than we had realized
- the importance of singing together and how important it is for worship
- there is more than one way to do things; we have become more creative and innovative
- What questions we are being called to wrestle with?
- how can we make people feel safe again, in church?
- what do we need to let go of, and what do we need to nurture?
- are there racial issues in our parish that need to be addressed?
- women seem to have done better at keeping connected during Covid; how do we make men feel more connected within the parish? Could women host events for the men?
- how to re-connect with the youth and young adults
- how to continue to reach out to those who cannot or do not attend services regularly
- What hopes for the future and signs of new life is the Spirit showing us?
- a reaffirmation of the value of what we have, and an encouragement to do more
- resumption of baptisms and confirmation
- the spirit will lead us into a new appreciation of being together as a parish
- our parish was primed for this moment; we had been visioning and planning before Covid; during the pandemic, humanity has been laid bare and the inequities around us have been laid bare; we are now faced with the blatant needs of society and so the timing is right for us to decide on where to put our time and energies